CORE VALUES

It is important that we as a human species wake up to the Truth of Love. In earlier times, long before written human history, humans lived in harmony with the Earth and each other. After the fall of consciousness, when fear, control and power took over, we started suppressing our connection to God and became a slave race. As fear was installed and we were robbed from our inner wisdom, we started believing and following what the outside forces told us to do. Humanity has been re-awakening for a long time. Today, there is an acceleration in the rise of consciousness taking place. More Souls than ever are waking up to the Truth of Love, Abundance, Freedom and Oneness. It is every Soul’s duty to take radical self-responsibility and contribute to the awakening.

True awakening is not possible without healing. If our consciousness expands and we continuously become aware of the bigger picture, but don’t heal, we stay stuck in certain stages of the awakening – never moving beyond the old paradigms, into the new version of ourselves. The old beliefs, karmic wounds, energetic imprints and stuck energy never truly leave when they don’t get the attention, Love and awareness they need. Liberation requires more than mindset work. To successfully move through the awakening journey, we need to shine light and love on the parts of our consciousness that are trapped in the old paradigm of “not enough” and separation. Only when one can embrace both shadow and light, one finds true balance and oneness within.

Self-Love is the core of my work. In my perspective, it’s the most significant key to Freedom. We work from the outer most layers of the self to the innermost core: from the conditioned self, to your deeper personality, your beautiful Soul gifts and to Oneness consciousness. In the process of loving all these parts of ourselves, we reconnect with the infinite Source of Love within and restore our sense of worthiness, beauty and magic. We learn how to show up for all of us, from the highest degree of Love (pure and unconditional). In this process, we learn how to continuously regulate our inner landscape with Love.

If Self-Love is the feminine, all-embracing side of Love, Self-Mastery is the masculine, directional side of Love. In order to become free, one has to become the master and let the mind be a servant. This requires: awareness, attention-regulation, and Higher Self connection. In Self-Mastery, your awareness is anchored in the body and you know you have free will: choose the ego, or choose the Higher Self. Choose fear or choose Love. Choose staying where you are, or choose expansion. The connection to your Higher Self (the most expanded part of your Soul-awareness) will help you access your higher mind. It will give you a strong connection to yourself, a sense of inner authority, inner strength and direction.

The path of authenticity will break down all the people-pleasing, conformity tendencies, escapism, or self-neglect patterns you’ve build over the years. Authenticity is about being radically honest with yourself and the world around you. This applies to the level of thought, emotion and behavior. (Do you keep giving energy to thoughts that you know are actually bringing you nowhere? Are you honest with your present moment emotions or are you pushing them away? Are your behaviors in alignment with who your truly are and what you truly want?). This also includes paying attention to your deepest Soul-desires, goals and dreams. The journey of continuously becoming more and more true with yourself is in my world, the most fulfilling one.

Inner Freedom is the inevitable result that comes from Self-Mastery and the knowing that you are always choosing your Soul, no matter what fear tells you. On the other side of anxiety, lies Freedom.

When you heal, love yourself deeply and make aligned choices, you will feel more peaceful inside. However, highs and lows are part of the human experience. But there is a deeper state of presence, the direct experience of Oneness consciousness within, that can truly be a sanctuary for you to fall back on in times of chaos. I am talking about your inner Buddha, the pure presence within that goes way beyond your ego self and even your Soul. You find this connection in the stillness of your inner energy body and in the spaces between your thoughts.

Free Self-Expression is the ‘yang’ aspect of your Self-Love. This can range from wearing the clothes that you truly want to wear, to speaking up about your feelings and what you truly stand for during a family dinner, to sharing your message freely on social media, to standing on a stage and letting out whatever art wants to be expressed through you! This process takes a lot of working through fears. The fear of being seen, both in your power and in your vulnerability is the main block (hallelujah, I know about it). Mastering free self-expression requires both self-love work and action (actually doing it). In the Self-Love and healing work, you collect the courage to show up as you are. In the “actually doing it“, you teach your ego that it’s safe to be you. Ego needs to be presented with counter-evidence that disproves its belief that it’s not safe to be seen.

We are Souls birthed from Creation. For a big part, we’ve been conditioned into consuming, looking and listening to the outside world to tell us what to do. This disconnects us from our innate creative abilities, our inner child, our Soul. Paying closer attention to what inspiring thoughts, ideas, visions and feelings you find in your inner world and expressing it through creativity, will bring you closer to yourself than you can imagine. Through creating, you get to discover parts of yourself that couldn’t reveal itself otherwise. As you are a direct expression of creation, you will find joy and meaning in the creation process itself, connecting to the very Source of existence. Creating is not only a way to connect deeper to - and express - your Soul. It is also a form of healing and processing. Writing down your thoughts, painting your emotions, expressing your feelings through singing, releasing tension with intuitive dance, … are all ways for us to make sense of our inner experiences and to support a harmonious energy flow.

Many of us are born with a sense of Soul purpose: a unique contribution we are here to make or a deeper reason for existing. For others, this sense of purpose reveals itself somewhere along the journey of awakening, healing and finding our authenticity. Some are crystal clear on what exactly this purpose is, but many need assistance. Most often we can’t see our Soul purpose because it is obscured with beliefs of low self-worth, self-doubt and insecurity. When you can’t see your value, it’s hard to admit your highest joy, your deepest Truth or to even fathom that you have something “unique” to share. When you finally see your worth and have gained clarity on your unique gifts, you start opening up to an infinite stream of inspiration that naturally flows from your Soul.  After working through visibility blocks, you get to pour your unique frequency into Soulful creations that do not only give you joy, but that can reach hearts, inspire minds and change lives (think of artistic projects, social media content, writing, exhibitions, live performances, making music, healing services, workshops, etc.). Welcome to the joyful existence of being a Soul Purpose Creator!